“I am your Jesus, born Incarnate. My sister, I have come to speak to you about criticism of others. Criticism can be good or evil. Few take this to heart. It is good if it is spoken within the context of finding a solution to an ongoing problem. Then, the constructive criticism must be kept within the confines of the circle of people who can effect the change.”
“Too often, however, criticism has its roots in evil. This type of criticism may speak of the sins and imperfections of others. This is a form of self-righteousness, for little effort is given to discovering faults within self, but much effort is spent on scrutinizing the imperfections of others.”
“Pride takes yet another form in this type of criticism. Inability to bear with the imperfections of others reveals a flaw in Holy Love and Holy Humility. The one who picks and chooses whom he will tolerate and be gracious towards is prideful. Further, if you see an imperfection in Holy Love in another – or think you do – do not speak of it to him, but pray for him. To presume the role of spiritual advisor, when you are not, is arrogance.”
“Yet another pitfall in criticism is judging motives of others' behavior. You do not know what is in another's heart – whether it be innocence, ignorance or malice. Once again, avoid presumption.”
“Good constructive criticism builds up and unites. Evil criticism tears down and divides. Each one would do well to take to heart these points I have given you today.”